New Page – Notable Quotes

7 12 2010

Just a quick note to let you all know there is a new page on 21st Century Wineskins. It’s called Notable Quotes and it has, well, notable quotes that relate to the subject matter of the blog. Look on the right side of the page under the heading See These Pages and click on Notable Quotes.

 

Some of the quotes are original – taken from things I’ve written, but not posted. Other quotes come from books that influence me, or from my interactions with people. If you have quotes relating to sharing your faith, missional life, the current state of the church, outreach, the perception of Christians, generation gone, authentic Christian community, or any other related topic, send it to me at rlm@provide.net and If it fits in with the theme of the blog, I’ll add it to the collection.

Enjoy!





21st Century Wineskins Seminar is Ready to Launch!

3 12 2010

For the last few months I’ve been preparing a seminar based on  the ideas I’ve shared on this blog. I believe God has called me to help others learn to share their faith in Jesus in a way that is natural, relational, and founded in Authentic Christian Community. Here’s a synopsis of what the seminar is about.

New Times Require New Methods

Much of what the church teaches about the “how-to” of sharing our faith focuses on presenting a certain set of propositions (e.g. God loves you and has a wonderful plan for your life), trying to convince someone to believe those propositions and say a prayer of assent when you get to the end of the booklet. Those tools have their place, and had a degree of success in helping people share their faith. However, the world has changed in the 40+ years since the creation of the most commonly used gospel presentations. Basic assumptions of the nature of truth are different, people are not merely looking for a spiritual belief system to ascribe to, and Christianity is not the default choice for the spiritually curious anymore.

The 21st Century Wineskins Seminar addresses how the church can more effectively communicate the gospel to a skeptical and increasingly post Christian culture.

Module 1: Perception is Reality

Examines the findings of the book UnChristian about how those outside the church perceive us and my own research regarding Christians’ perceptions of non-believers. We take a look at the perceptions, examine how they create obstacles to both receiving and sharing the gospel, and look at ways we have contributed to the problem and how to change for the better.

Module 2: Creating Authentic Christian Community

Looks at some of the characteristics of the early church such as the “Four Devotions” (Apostles’ teaching, fellowship, breaking of bread, and prayer) and the things these devotions produce (togetherness, generosity, praise, witness, and fruit). This module also suggests ways to help create that type of Authentic Christian Community and shows how it is the context within which effective outreach takes place and is the element that will keep people committed to Christ for the long haul.

Module 3: Building Bridges Strong Enough to Bear the Weight of Truth

Most Christians want to share the gospel, but never feel quite up to the task. This workshop focuses on how to build relational bridges to those with whom you want to share the gospel. Using the metaphor of building a bridge we look at Laying the Foundation (Prayer), Building the Superstructure (Four Key Elements – Observation, Time, Attitudes, & Communication), and Completing the Connection (Establishing Trust & Speaking God’s Truth).

Module 4: Re-Thinking Evangelism

What is the first thing that pops into your head when you think of evangelism? That’s scary? I’m gonna be rejected? Not my spiritual gift? This seminar looks at how most Christians think of evangelism, gives an explanation of Relational Evangelism, and challenges you to rethink how evangelism could be done and will help you begin to share your faith in new and natural ways.

These are some of the things you will learn in this seminar

  • Building strong relational bridges based on trust and mutual respect will allow you to lovingly speak God’s truth into a person’s life without damaging the friendship.
  • Relational evangelism begins by seeing people as Jesus does, spending time with them, having Christ-like attitudes, and learning to communicate so people understand.
  • In the context of Authentic Christian Community everyday Christians experience the power of God and bear fruit for the kingdom.

For more information about how Relational Life Ministries
can help equip you or your church for effective outreach contact:
Chris Hardy
phone: 734-646-3227
email: rlm@provide.net





Authentic Christian Community

5 08 2010

Last week my daughter Beth wrote about Generation Gone. It is the most read post on the blog. Thanks Beth, and great job.

One of the things that would help churches keep members in the 20-40 year old demographic would be an emphasis on developing Authentic Christian Community (ACC). A brief description of ACC is found in the opening chapters of the book of Acts. If we take a look at the snapshot of the early church given there we can discover the source and impact of ACC in the early church.

Authentic Christian Community Is Produced by
▸ a group of Christ followers being filled with and empowered by the power of the Holy Spirit to put into practice the teachings and example of Jesus in everyday life (Acts 1:4-5, 8; 2:4, 38-39)

Authentic Christian Community Produces
▸ devotion to the life-giving essentials of a vibrant congregation (Acts 2:42)
▸ togetherness of the members of a church so they can “do” life with each other (Acts 2:42, 46)
▸ generosity & praise so that people’s needs are met by the community and God is praised for His goodness and provision (Acts 2:44-45, 47)
▸ sharing of the gospel message and spiritual fruit in the lives of those both inside and outside the church (Acts 2:43, 47)

If churches in the United States would devote themselves to developing Authentic Christian Community, they wouldn’t have room enough to hold all the young people (and older ones, too) that would desire to be a part of it.

If you or your church wants to develop this type of Authentic Christian Community then you can reserve a date to host or attend the 21st Century Wineskins Seminar that Relational Life Ministries(1) is presenting this fall. The seminar, consisting of four modules, is designed to equip churches, small groups, and individuals to share the story of their faith in Jesus in a relational way in the context of Authentic Christian Community. Module Two is dedicated to helping you and your church develop a deeper expression of Authentic Christian Community.

(1) Relational Life Ministries exists to equip churches, small groups, and individuals create authentic Christian community, where people experience God’s mercy and grace, and grow to be more like Jesus.





Ammunition

12 05 2010

Last time I wrote about how Christians are often viewed in a negative light. One reader commented on the verse in John 15:18-19 which says, “If the world hates you, keep in mind that it hated me first. If you belonged to the world, it would love you as its own. As it is, you do not belong to the world, but I have chosen you out of the world. That is why the world hates you.” His point was that people who do not believe Jesus is God’s Son sent to save us from our sins will not like the message that they need a savior, and they will not like the messengers either.

This is true. The Bible says the message of the gospel, while good news to those who believe, will offend some of those who don’t. I was not speaking of the inherent potential offensiveness of the gospel message. What I was addressing in the last post were offensive actions by Christ followers which have no relation to the gospel message.

Let me give you an example. The following “prayer” was posted on Facebook on April 10 – “Dear Lord, this year you took my favorite actor, Patrick Swayzie (sic). You took my favorite actress, Farah (sic) Fawcett. You took my favorite singer, Michael Jackson. I just wanted to let you know, my favorite president is Barack Obama. Amen.”

While this was a misguided attempt at humor it has received over 600,000 thumbs up votes, many I’m sure by conservative Christians who don’t agree with President Obama’s politics. Some of my Christian Facebook friends are among them. The Bible does tell us to pray for those in political authority (First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way. – 1Timothy 2:1-2), but it never instructs us to (even jokingly) pray for their death.

This type of thing gives ammunition to those outside of Christianity to say, “See, I knew all along those Christians are hateful people.” God has entrusted to his followers the message of reconciliation which says God wants people to know they can have their sins forgiven thorough faith in Christ. The Apostle Paul says we are ambassadors for Christ. God is making his appeal for reconciliation through us. What message are we sending to those God desires to forgive by praying, albeit humorously, for the death of a president with whom we have political disagreements. Our actions reflect not only on us, but on Jesus whom we represent.

What kind of message are we sending?








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